This is a guest blog post by author Lucy Rivas Enriquez, author of DJ's Lullaby - A Mother's Love Song.
Thank you for the opportunity to bring my story to your readers. DJ’s Lullaby – A Mother’s Love Song is a
very personal project. It is the bedtime story I created for my son when he
first came home to us. The lullaby at the end is the same one I sang to him
hundreds of times. I wanted him to know from a very young age how special he is
and how loved, wanted, and prayed for he has been. I am the mom in the book and
my son is DJ. This is our story.
In August of 2009, my husband and I became foster parents and
welcomed baby DJ into our lives. We fell in love with him from the first minute
we saw him. Truth be told, I fell in love with him years before when I knew in
my heart he would come. I didn’t know he would come through adoption. But
believe me, I knew he would come. My son is now a toddler about to turn four
and one of the biggest fans of this book. I think he likes to see his image on
the cover. He also enjoys the pictures that go with all the silly faces I would
make when I would tell him the story.
A mother’s love is a universal theme. That’s the overriding
message of my book. Throughout the pages, I talk about this “mom in waiting”
who has all the special mommy parts needed to do the job. In the end, her baby
comes to her through adoption. Nonetheless, all the special mommy parts are
still there and used for exactly the right purpose; being a mom. Anyone who is
a mom, a child of a mom, or even knows a mom can relate to it. There is an
adoption component to the story. Families who have grown through adoption will
find it particularly special. Most importantly, it is a children’s book
intended for sharing with the very special children in our lives. My goal in
sharing this very personal story is to provide parents a tool for conversation
about the depth of the love they have for their adopted children. With all my
children’s stories, I want to make adoption a celebrated choice.
My book combines a few themes at the same time. Certainly it is a
book about a mother’s love for her adopted son. It also has an element of faith
and trust in God’s plan. I think it is important for children to hear these
messages from a very early age. What sets my book apart however is the fact
that it is a book with a mission. We were blessed to have DJ’s two older
sisters join our family a year after he did. We finalized our forever family by
adopting them too. Adoption, in particular adoption from foster care, is a
cause very near and dear to our family. I have partnered with the Dave Thomas
Foundation for Adoption. They are a wonderful organization that works to find
“forever families” for youth in foster care. My proceeds from this and future
children’s books are being donated to help children in my area get matched with
their forever families.
DJ’s Lullaby is my debut book. I am currently working on several
other children’s books. Simon the Dragon
is being illustrated at this time. Simon is a dragon who struggles with being
different. A special book about DJ’s
sisters is also in the works. Their story is a little different. We were their
4th home and they were old enough to understand what was going on.
There are struggles for them that come with that experience. My books all have
a special component about diversity, adoption, acceptance and other themes that
children in foster care or who are adopted struggle with. I hope to help
children with similar experiences understand they are not alone. I hope to help
parents by providing a fun and interactive tool to open discussion about these
themes.
I would be remiss if I don’t take the opportunity to mention my
illustrator, M.A. Moisa. She is my extremely talented sister. She is an amazing
artist and person. Right now, she is busy working on Simon the Dragon and I have seen some of the drawings. Readers are
not going to be disappointed. She has an uncanny way of breathing life into the
words. They tell the story just as much as the words do. She is featured on my
website.
About the Author
Lucy Rivas
Enriquez is a businesswoman who has worked in the field of human resources
for more than 17 years. In that time she has learned a thing or two about
people, diversity, and the human condition. Writing has always been a part of
her life and now she weaves real-life experiences and lessons about diversity,
acceptance, adoption and people into her children's books.
In her debut book, DJ's Lullaby, Lucy shares the bedtime
story she created when DJ joined her family. It is a heartwarming story of love
for her adopted son. Lucy and her husband became foster parents when they
learned there was a baby coming into the world who might need a home. They
welcomed baby DJ into their lives when he was 10 days old. One year later, DJ's
two older sisters joined him. Today, Lucy, her husband, and three (now) adopted
children live in Illinois, where running around, being silly, and singing songs
are an important part of daily life.